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Financial Journey Preparing
for the Holidays
Without Pulling Out Your Hair! (Part
2) In last month’s
column, I encouraged you to think more broadly about what things you will need
to do to prepare for Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s.
Have you created lists of everything and anything that came to mind?
If you didn’t make your lists yet, it isn’t too late.
Thanksgiving is just around the corner, but you can still save a lot of
money over Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s if you exercise your
creative thinking and plan ahead. More...
I’d
like to restate two things from Part 1 of
this article to help you stay calm and use resourcefulness to keep more money in
your pocket book. The first is to
adopt the mantra “Simplicity Saves Sanity.”
The second is to remember that just because you have always done things a
certain way does not mean that you have to continue doing them the same way.
There really aren’t any written rules about the holidays! Study
your lists and think about what you could do differently this year to save
money. Do you have friends on your Christmas
gift list? Invite them for a
potluck dinner instead and have a “white elephant” gift exchange.
My favorite is to have everybody bring some item from their home that
they want to get rid of – there are a variety of ways of doing this kind of
exchange. Rather than going into
the logistics of how I’ve done this in the past, I would suggest you ask
others for their ideas. The gift
exchanges we have had the most fun and laughed the hardest were the ones where
we didn’t have to spend any money on a gift! Depending
on how many friends are on your list, you might decide to do this over one or
more evenings. Ask somebody to
bring their favorite movie on video or DVD; ask others to bring their favorite
Christmas music; ask somebody else to come up with a favorite game for the
group. The general idea here is to
allow others to help you in creating a memorable evening.
This is a great opportunity to create a new tradition, simplify your
life, save money, and cut down tremendously on the stress.
In fact, the social connections and laughter will be a huge stress
reliever. Maybe
your friends or family would be interested in helping other families in need
instead of exchanging gifts this year. By
contacting local churches, homeless shelters, and other agencies that serve
people in need – you won’t have any problem finding ways to help others.
This is another opportunity to begin a new tradition.
I
haven’t been Christmas caroling since I was in high school – but I would
sure enjoy doing that again if I could find a group of friends or family that
wanted to do that together! Study the other things on your list such as decorations, wrapping paper, invitations, etc. What can you do differently this year to save money and time? I
collect everything and anything for wrapping paper!
I use comics, old sheet music, end rolls from our local newspaper,
recycled gift bags and wrapping paper, tissue paper, and old calendars.
For small gifts you can use pages from the millions of catalogs you
are probably receiving in the mail right now. What
can you do differently to simplify decorations?
While you’re taking nature walks, and getting in some exercise to fend
off weight gain before the holidays – look around for things you can bring
home to use as decorations. We’re
fortunate to live in an area where I can take baskets outside and fill them with
branches of pine needles and pine cones. Collect
autumn leaves, fallen branches with interesting shapes, unique and colorful
rocks, old bird’s nests, etc. There
are countless ways to arrange those to trim your porch and mantel, or to create
a new centerpiece for the table. You
really don’t have to go all out with the decorations to enjoy the theme of the
holidays and get into the holiday spirit. I
have found that it is much simpler to decorate focal points in each room to give
me the “warm, fuzzy feeling” of the holiday season.
I concentrate on our entry way, our hearth and mantel in the family room,
and a couple of other strategic spots that we see most often. What
about exchanging decorations with friends – that would provide several people
an opportunity to enjoy some “new” holiday décor without having to spend
any money. Visit Thrift Shops and
garage sales to find some of the items on your list.
We live in a colder climate and I am still finding lots and lots of
garage sales. As a matter of fact,
I am picking up next year’s gifts at garage sales now! Look
through your own stash of accumulated “stuff” for “regifting”
opportunities. You might have many
beautiful things in your collection that match another person’s interests.
Some ideas might include puzzles, games, jewelry, kitchen appliances,
books, magazine collections, videos, CD’s, etc.
A couple of years ago our friends decided to do this as a way to simplify
and declutter. They wrote a
beautiful letter to give with the gift, and they personalized each gift to fit
with the individual. Their friends
and family were all very receptive and pleased with the gifts they had been
given. There
is one thing that many of us fall prey to that runs up our gift giving
expenditures. I know, because even
as frugal as I am, I have been guilty of this.
I will see gift items while shopping and then start to second guess
myself. Examples of my self talk
– will my friend like this better
than the gift I already bought? I
really haven’t purchased enough for this particular child.
Oh, maybe I should make Christmas stockings and fill them with some
little gifts (these are for my grown children who no longer live at home!)
The cure for this syndrome is to QUIT shopping once you have something
adequate for each person on your list. I
have also worked at ratcheting down expectations over the years by purchasing
less, combining gifts for grandchildren in the same family, and making a lot of
my gifts. I decided a couple of
years ago that I would focus on my own theme of “Giving from the heart” and
I have continued to stick with that. If
we decide to spend extra and buy something special, we score extra brownie
points! But, at least it isn’t
expected any more, and the decision to spend extra is driven by us, not the
recipient. For
simple recreation ideas, check your local newspaper and Chamber of Commerce for
events around town that are available throughout the holidays.
There are often a variety of free or low cost events that your family and
friends could enjoy without the effort of putting together labor intensive
affairs at your house. If
you are really stuck for ideas to create new and simplified traditions, try
searching the internet. Check out Google
or ask.com and
type in key words such as simplify holidays, games, recipes, holiday traditions,
international holiday ideas, holiday folklore, holiday stories, holiday
inspiration, etc. Your
possibilities are limitless if you let your imagination run free. I
realize that many of these ideas will not fit with each reader’s comfort
level. My objective is to put some
ideas out there for you to mull over and consider.
If only one or two ideas work for you, then I will have accomplished my
goal to help you simplify your holidays in some way!
I wish each of you a wonderful, safe, and peaceful Holiday Season – and most importantly, the opportunity to share it with the people you love. That is what the season is about – to be thankful and share love with those who fill our lives!
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